I think your asking a question only you can answer.
Do you want to say anything?
You have the right, to go either direction...
Grief & silence
Grief & tell the story
Your call, do what you can look back on & feel proud of.
I know I'd have a hard time speaking in memory of someone I love and respected.
I also know that depending on the person, if I was the only one to sum up thier life properly, I wouldnt be able to live with myself for missing the opportunity.
Yes, the money is important in life, but, when you look back, what do you see?
What youve DONE in life & HOW youve done it is all we are.
Fight to control the grief & tell the story gets my vote....IF thats what your asking
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